Internal Family Systems (IFS)

What Is Internal Family Systems (IFS) Therapy?

Internal Family Systems (IFS) therapy is an evidence based counselling approach that helps you understand and heal the different "parts" of yourself. Rather than viewing difficult thoughts, emotions, or behaviours as flaws, IFS recognizes that every part of you developed for a reason and is trying to protect you in some way. By approaching these parts with curiosity and compassion instead of judgment, you can reduce emotional distress, heal past wounds, and create meaningful, lasting change.

Internal Family Systems (IFS) Therapists

Virtual & In-Person

Rosa Rino

Provisional Psychologist

$220 per hour

Rosa supports teens, adults, and couples with relationships, anxiety, depression, identity, life transitions, grief, stress, burnout, self-esteem, and emotional regulation.

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Virtual & In-Person

Jennifer Berrow

Provisional Psychologist

$200 per hour

Jennifer Berrow is a Registered Provisional Psychologist who supports children, teens, and adults through anxiety, depression, and ADHD while offering neuro-affirming assessments and strength-based, evidence-based care.

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Cecily Wang

Registered Psychologist

$220 per hour

Cecily helps with anxiety, depression, trauma, life transitions, relationships, OCD, workplace issues, stress, anger, and more. She also performs Psycho-educational, Giftedness and ADHD Assessments for adults and children (3+).

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Jessica Friesen

Registered Psychologist

$235 (sliding scale available) per hour

Jessica works with children (6+), teens, adults, and couples on issues like anxiety, depression, life transitions, ADHD, reproductive health, and more. A former educator and published author, Jessica brings calm, compassion, and deep insight to every session.

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How Does Internal Family Systems Therapy Work?

IFS therapy helps you develop a compassionate relationship with the different parts of yourself. Rather than trying to suppress uncomfortable emotions or eliminate unwanted behaviours, your psychologist helps you understand where these parts came from, what they are protecting, and what they need in order to heal.

Sessions are collaborative and move at a pace that feels comfortable. Through guided conversations and gentle exploration, clients often gain greater self awareness, emotional regulation, confidence, and freedom from long standing patterns.

What Can Internal Family Systems (IFS) Therapy Help With

Internal Family Systems therapy can support a wide range of mental health concerns, emotional challenges, and personal growth goals by helping you understand and heal the protective parts of yourself that developed through life experiences.

Anxiety and Stress

IFS can help reduce anxiety by understanding the parts of you that constantly worry, overthink, stay on high alert, or prepare for every possible outcome. As these protective parts begin to feel safe, many people experience greater calm, emotional regulation, and resilience. IFS may help with generalized anxiety, social anxiety, panic attacks, health anxiety, chronic stress, and burnout.

Trauma and PTSD

Many protective parts develop after difficult or traumatic experiences. IFS provides a compassionate way to process childhood trauma, complex trauma, post traumatic stress disorder (PTSD), grief, loss, neglect, abuse, and attachment wounds without forcing you to relive overwhelming experiences. Therapy helps these parts release emotional burdens so healing can occur safely.

Depression and Mood Challenges

IFS can help you better understand the parts that contribute to sadness, hopelessness, self criticism, shame, emotional numbness, or feeling stuck. By healing the underlying emotional wounds, many people experience greater self compassion, motivation, hope, and emotional balance.

Self Esteem and Confidence

Many people carry parts that believe they are not good enough, fear rejection, or constantly compare themselves to others. IFS helps build self acceptance, confidence, healthier boundaries, self worth, and a stronger sense of identity while reducing perfectionism, imposter syndrome, and people pleasing.

Relationships and Attachment

Internal Family Systems can improve communication, emotional intimacy, trust, and conflict resolution by helping you understand the protective patterns that show up in relationships. It is beneficial for couples, families, friendships, and individuals who struggle with attachment, emotional reactivity, or fear of abandonment.

Emotional Regulation

IFS helps you better understand intense emotions instead of becoming overwhelmed by them. Therapy can improve emotional regulation, reduce anger, guilt, shame, irritability, and emotional overwhelm while increasing self awareness and psychological flexibility.

ADHD and Neurodivergence

For individuals with ADHD or other forms of neurodivergence, IFS can help address emotional regulation challenges, rejection sensitivity, perfectionism, masking, chronic self criticism, and burnout. Therapy focuses on developing self compassion while reducing internal conflict.

Life Transitions and Personal Growth

IFS is not only for treating mental health conditions. Many people use it to increase self awareness, clarify personal values, improve decision making, navigate major life transitions, strengthen resilience, and foster lasting personal growth. Whether you are changing careers, becoming a parent, ending a relationship, or exploring your identity, IFS helps you move forward with greater clarity and confidence.

Frequently Asked Questions About Internal Family Systems (IFS) Therapy

What is Internal Family Systems (IFS) therapy?

Internal Family Systems therapy is an evidence based counselling approach that helps people understand and heal different parts of themselves. Instead of fighting difficult emotions or behaviours, IFS helps you work with them compassionately to create lasting emotional healing.

What are "parts" in Internal Family Systems?

Parts are different aspects of your personality that developed to help you cope with life experiences. Examples include an inner critic, perfectionist, people pleaser, anxious part, or avoidant part. Each part has a protective role, even when it creates challenges in daily life.

What is the Self in IFS?

The Self is your natural state of calmness, compassion, curiosity, confidence, courage, creativity, clarity, and connection. In IFS therapy, the goal is to help your Self become the compassionate leader of your internal system rather than allowing protective parts to take over.

Is Internal Family Systems therapy evidence based?

Yes. Research continues to support IFS as an effective therapy for trauma, PTSD, anxiety, depression, emotional regulation, and self compassion. It is increasingly recognized as an evidence based treatment within mental health care.

Can IFS help with anxiety?

Yes. IFS helps identify and understand the protective parts that fuel worry, overthinking, perfectionism, and fear. As these parts heal, many people experience reduced anxiety and improved emotional regulation.

Can IFS help with trauma?

Absolutely. IFS is widely used for childhood trauma, complex trauma, PTSD, grief, abuse, and attachment wounds. It provides a gentle, compassionate approach that allows healing without forcing you to relive traumatic experiences before you are ready.

Is IFS therapy the same as Parts Work?

Internal Family Systems is the best known Parts Work model. While other therapies may also use parts based concepts, IFS provides a structured, evidence informed framework for understanding and healing your internal system.

Is Internal Family Systems therapy right for everyone?

IFS can benefit many people experiencing anxiety, depression, trauma, low self esteem, perfectionism, emotional overwhelm, relationship challenges, or life transitions. Your psychologist will work with you to determine whether IFS is the best fit for your goals and may integrate it with other therapeutic approaches.

How long does IFS therapy take?

The length of therapy varies depending on your goals and experiences. Some clients notice meaningful improvements within a few sessions, while others choose longer term therapy to work through deeper patterns and trauma.

Can Internal Family Systems therapy be combined with other therapies?

Yes. IFS integrates well with many evidence based approaches, including CBT, ACT, EMDR, DBT, mindfulness, and attachment based therapy. Your psychologist will tailor treatment to your unique needs and goals.

Internal Family Systems (IFS) Therapy

Therapy That Helps You Heal From Within

What Is Internal Family Systems (IFS) Therapy?